FAQs

I’ve never talked to anyone. I’m used to handling things on my own. Aren’t people who go to therapy weak?

Not at all. People who ask for help know when they need it and have the courage to reach out. Everyone needs help now and then. In our work together, I’ll help you explore and identify your strengths and how to implement them to reduce the influence of the problems you are facing.

What’s the difference between talking to you or my best friend or family?

The difference is between someone who can do something, and someone who has the training and experience to do that same thing professionally. A mental health professional can help you approach your situation in a new way– teach you new skills, gain different perspectives, listen to you without judgment or expectations, and help you listen to yourself. Furthermore, counseling is completely confidential. You won’t have to worry about others “knowing my business.” Lastly, if your situation provokes a great deal of negative emotion, and you’ve been confiding in a friend or family member, there is the risk that once you are feeling better you could start avoiding that person so you aren’t reminded of this difficult time in your life.

Why shouldn’t I just take medication?

Medication can be effective but it alone cannot solve all issues. Sometimes medication is needed in conjunction with counseling. Our work together is designed to explore and unpack the problems you are experiencing and expand on your strengths that can help you accomplish your personal goals.

How does it work? What do I have to do in sessions?

Because each person has different issues and goals for counseling, it will be different depending on the individual. I tailor my therapeutic approach to your specific needs.

How long will it take?

Unfortunately, this is not possible to say in a general FAQs page. Everyone’s circumstances are unique to them and the length of time counseling can take to allow you to accomplish your goals depends on your desire for personal development, your commitment, and the factors that are driving you to seek counseling in the first place.

I want to get the most out of therapy. What can I do to help?

I am so glad you are dedicated to getting the most out of your sessions. Your active participation and dedication will be crucial to your success.

How do I know if I am a sex addict?

That’s a great question!!  There are tools that I use to make a proper assessment whether there is a presence of sexual compulsive behaviors. Questions I typically ask sex addicts is if you feel your sexual behaviors have harmed yourself or others, your life has become unmanageable or have repeatedly failed to stop these behaviors on your own.    

What if I cancel because of an emergency?

I do require 24 hours notice if you’re going to cancel. I completely understand emergencies happen and sometimes unforeseen life events arise.  However, your regular session day/time has been reserved for you. My current client schedule does not allow for flexibility with respect to continual cancellations, rescheduled appointments, or no shows.  If you find that your schedule is no longer able to accommodate the session time reserved for you we will discuss and I will do the very best to find an alternative day and time so that you can continue your work.